Nollywood actress, Ini Edo has replied social media customers critising her resolution to offer delivery by means of Surrogacy.
Earlier right now, a author recognized as Waterz Yidana said that actress Ini Edo ‘s resolution to delivery a toddler by means of Surrogacy has created a giant downside for her baby.
Waterz Yidana wrote:
“Ini Edo HAS JUST CREATED A BIG PROBLEM FOR AN INNOCENT CHILD”…..
I like Ini Edo very a lot. If for nothing in any respect, I loved watching her films after I was rising up as a youngster.
She is a really stunning girl. And she or he is gifted as effectively and interpreted her film roles past perfection, therefore my likeness for her…..
I usually received’t touch upon the existence of many Nigerian and Ghanaian celebrities as a result of I really feel they’ve each proper to stay as they please as soon as they aren’t breaking any public legal guidelines or posing as enemies of the state…
However I’m commenting on this specific challenge as a result of I noticed so a lot of our youth praising her on-line for the incorrect motive.
So to teach them, I’ve to elucidate sure issues to them so they don’t repeat such a giant mistake like Ini Edo has simply carried out…
I learn within the information right now that she (Ini Edo) has birthed a child lady by means of surrogacy and he or she may be very pleased about that. Properly, I’m pleased for her too as a fan…
Congratulations to her. However she dedicated a blunder I’ll wish to level out to her….
I perceive the plight of ladies who’ve tried every thing doable to have their very own kids however can not. It’s miserable and soul-crushing.
I at all times sympathize with them and encourage our males to deal with such ladies with a lot kindness as a result of they want it to maintain them really alive.
To be barren in Africa shouldn’t be simple. Individuals will decide you from left and proper with out realizing the way you really really feel as a girl who needs your individual baby or kids.
A few of these ladies with such issues , of their quest to get a toddler by all means, attempt various things together with surrogacy, particularly these of them who’re privileged or fairly okay in life…
It’s not a nasty factor to have a toddler by means of surrogacy for those who’ve issues together with your reproductive system or having a difficulty getting pregnant or, in a case the place getting pregnant and giving delivery poses a risk to your well being…
However my solely downside is that Ini Edo has created a giant downside for this harmless child when she grows as much as perceive how issues work in life…
After all, Ini Edo deserves to be pleased, however let’s not neglect that the harmless baby deserves to be pleased too, sooner or later when she grows as much as perceive what’s taking place round her….
She birthing the child by means of surrogacy shouldn’t be the issue as I preserve saying,
however her resolution of utilizing a random or an nameless “donor sperm” is my downside together with her. Sure, the Eggs are hers and so genetically the child is her blood.
However who’s the child’s father? The place is he? From which household background? Is he a Ghanaian, Nigerian or a South African? What’s his identification?
Who’s her surrogate mom? The place is she? The lady that suffered to hold her 9 months in her womb!…
These are very related questions Ini Edo and her mates is perhaps overlooking, however this harmless baby will ask these similar questions some day when she wants fatherly love and care.
This child will undergo quite a lot of psychological issues and psychological tortures on the lookout for who her father is and the lady that carried her for 9 months in her womb.
Do you suppose that it’s simple to stay with out realizing your father in an African society?
Should you develop up as a toddler and ask about your father, and also you’re advised that he’s useless, you’ll perceive since you’ll see his photos and his household…
However for Ini Edo to inform the kid that “I don’t know your father. ‘It was an nameless “donor sperm” with my egg that one other girl carried for 9 months for me’, will make the kid essentially the most depressing individual on earth. She could even commit suicide if she shouldn’t be robust emotionally….
Worse of all of it, is that if Ini Edo doesn’t stay lengthy sufficient to see this baby develop up as an grownup. Who might be her household? Ini Edo’s brothers and sisters? Too unhealthy….
It’s not one of the best to have a toddler by means of surrogacy with a random or an nameless “donor sperm”….
Ini Edo may’ve made her boyfriend or any man she admires donate his sperm for this child since she’s not prepared for marriage.
However to say that she doesn’t need any “child daddy drama” that’s why she selected a random “donor sperm” is just exhibiting her degree of selfishness or childishness….
She doesn’t really care about how the child will really feel when she grows up…..
She simply cares about having a child to please the society or to show a ineffective level to individuals who don’t like her or folks she doesn’t like. Too unhealthy. I pity the harmless child…
Different ladies who could need to have kids this fashion ought to do with a person they like in order that the kid can even have and know their father….
It’s an ideal factor to have a father. And everybody deserves one…
Reacting to those criticisms, Ini Edo wrote:
“My daughter’s donor isn’t only a random individual…doesn’t make him anymore than a donor! Now y’all can begin to concentrate on what’s actually essential on this nation and go away the hell alone”