Nollywood actress, Ini Edo has replied social media customers critising her resolution to present beginning by Surrogacy.
Earlier immediately, a author recognized as Waterz Yidana acknowledged that actress Ini Edo ‘s resolution to beginning a baby by Surrogacy has created an enormous drawback for her baby.
Waterz Yidana wrote:
“Ini Edo HAS JUST CREATED A BIG PROBLEM FOR AN INNOCENT CHILD”…..
I like Ini Edo very a lot. If for nothing in any respect, I loved watching her films after I was rising up as a teen.
She is a really stunning lady. And she or he is proficient as nicely and interpreted her film roles past perfection, therefore my likeness for her…..
I typically gained’t touch upon the existence of many Nigerian and Ghanaian celebrities as a result of I really feel they’ve each proper to reside as they please as soon as they don’t seem to be breaking any public legal guidelines or posing as enemies of the state…
However I’m commenting on this explicit subject as a result of I noticed so lots of our youth praising her on-line for the unsuitable cause.
So to coach them, I’ve to elucidate sure issues to them so they don’t repeat such an enormous mistake like Ini Edo has simply carried out…
I learn within the information immediately that she (Ini Edo) has birthed a child woman by surrogacy and she or he may be very joyful about that. Effectively, I’m joyful for her too as a fan…
Congratulations to her. However she dedicated a blunder I’ll wish to level out to her….
I perceive the plight of girls who’ve tried all the things doable to have their very own youngsters however can not. It’s miserable and soul-crushing.
I all the time sympathize with them and encourage our males to deal with such ladies with a lot kindness as a result of they want it to maintain them really alive.
To be barren in Africa is just not simple. Individuals will choose you from left and proper with out figuring out the way you really really feel as a lady who needs your personal baby or youngsters.
A few of these ladies with such issues , of their quest to get a baby by all means, strive various things together with surrogacy, particularly these of them who’re privileged or fairly okay in life…
It’s not a foul factor to have a baby by surrogacy for those who’ve issues together with your reproductive system or having a problem getting pregnant or, in a case the place getting pregnant and giving beginning poses a menace to your well being…
However my solely drawback is that Ini Edo has created an enormous drawback for this harmless child when she grows as much as perceive how issues work in life…
After all, Ini Edo deserves to be joyful, however let’s not overlook that the harmless baby deserves to be joyful too, sooner or later when she grows as much as perceive what’s taking place round her….
She birthing the newborn by surrogacy is just not the issue as I maintain saying,
however her resolution of utilizing a random or an nameless “donor sperm” is my drawback together with her. Sure, the Eggs are hers and so genetically the newborn is her blood.
However who’s the newborn’s father? The place is he? From which household background? Is he a Ghanaian, Nigerian or a South African? What’s his id?
Who’s her surrogate mom? The place is she? The girl that suffered to hold her 9 months in her womb!…
These are very related questions Ini Edo and her associates is perhaps overlooking, however this harmless baby will ask these identical questions some day when she wants fatherly love and care.
This child will undergo plenty of psychological issues and psychological tortures searching for who her father is and the girl that carried her for 9 months in her womb.
Do you suppose that it’s simple to reside with out figuring out your father in an African society?
For those who develop up as a baby and ask about your father, and also you’re informed that he’s useless, you’ll perceive since you’ll see his photos and his household…
However for Ini Edo to inform the kid that “I don’t know your father. ‘It was an nameless “donor sperm” with my egg that one other lady carried for 9 months for me’, will make the kid probably the most depressing particular person on earth. She might even commit suicide if she is just not sturdy emotionally….
Worse of all of it, is that if Ini Edo doesn’t reside lengthy sufficient to see this baby develop up as an grownup. Who shall be her household? Ini Edo’s brothers and sisters? Too dangerous….
It’s not one of the best to have a baby by surrogacy with a random or an nameless “donor sperm”….
Ini Edo might’ve made her boyfriend or any man she admires donate his sperm for this child since she’s not prepared for marriage.
However to say that she doesn’t need any “child daddy drama” that’s why she selected a random “donor sperm” is simply displaying her degree of selfishness or childishness….
She doesn’t really care about how the newborn will really feel when she grows up…..
She simply cares about having a child to please the society or to show a ineffective level to individuals who don’t like her or individuals she doesn’t like. Too dangerous. I pity the harmless child…
Different ladies who might need to have youngsters this fashion ought to do with a person they like in order that the kid can even have and know their father….
It’s an incredible factor to have a father. And everybody deserves one…
Reacting to those criticisms, Ini Edo wrote:
“My daughter’s donor isn’t only a random particular person…doesn’t make him anymore than a donor! Now y’all can begin to give attention to what’s actually vital on this nation and go away the hell alone”